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Character Development

Responsibility

Responsibility is a germane quality in a human’s personality.

Responsibility is simply “doing the right thing.” Doing the right thing means living a life where you bear the consequences of every action you take while keeping others in mind. Responsibility is the moral quality of individuals being ethical, accountable for their actions, and conscious of the impact of their decisions on society.

People are not born with a sense of responsibility. Being responsible does not happen magically by the snap of the fingers. It is a quality that people should cultivate until it becomes part of their personalities.

It encompasses personal and professional development. A successful person must be responsible for his future. He must be a man of his words and a go-getter. When you are responsible, you become a better person and gain the respect of others.

5 QUESTIONS TO DETERMINE HOW RESPONSIBLE YOU ARE

Answer the following questions with a “Yes” or a “No”.

  1. Do you always fulfil your promises to others?
  2. Do others consider you as a reliable person?
  3. Do you have long-term goals for your life?
  4. Do you take practical steps to develop yourself?
  5. Do you help others to solve their problems?

If your correct answers to the questions above were “Yes”, you are a responsible person. If you answered “No” to any of these questions, you have areas to develop to become more responsible.

HOW TO BE A RESPONSIBLE PERSON

  1. Develop yourself.
  2. Constantly work towards your life goals.
  3. Be reliable. Start from simple things like fulfilling little promises to others. You may write your tasks in order not to forget them.
  4. Control yourself in different situations. The ways you respond to situations prove your level of maturity and responsibility.
  5. Help others.

Everyone has different interpretations of responsibility and different kinds of responsibilities. However, resolve to perform your responsibilities in life, and be responsible, as irresponsible people are always liabilities in the long run.

AUTHOR

Folakemi Oyeyemi is an Associate Solutions Architect at Lead Resources, a strategic human capital development social enterprise that helps organizations become the best they can be using world-class tools and practices. She is a Mathematician and is also passionate about entrepreneurship.

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Human Capital Development

Freedom

People desire freedom.

Freedom is the ability to act based on your convictions without external restrictions or retribution, and represent yourself as you see yourself to be without having to disguise in order to pursue happiness, fulfillment and growth. It is the power of free self-expression.

Different cultures define freedom in different ways thus people of different societies enjoy it in ways that they consider to be appropriate. Being free does not imply that we should infringe on the rights of others and live by our feelings. It involves considering the rights and the feelings of the people around us while living freely.

On the other hand, a free person does not need to fear when expressing his opinion. Societies that encourage freedom of opinion, belief, expression, choice, etc. are the ones where creative minds flourish.

Freedom also involves appreciating the enchanting beauty of nature and our environments. A person who is worried and anxious is not truly free. Hence, being free is a function of the state of your mind. It implies that your mind is under no fear or compulsion of safety in life.

Social recognition and being safe do not mean freedom. The fulfilment of our aspirations and ambitions do not equate to being free. Education and religion do not make us free. Freedom is the absence of pressure from our social, political and religious environments. It is within the social customs and laws of the country.

No society can guarantee absolute freedom to all social creatures. This is because our societies will become chaotic when we all do what we want when we want. Hence, freedom is not an absolute right as it has some constraints. If it poses a threat to society and the nation, it is false. One cannot kill people, violate laws, smuggle drugs, etc. in the guise of being truly free.

We must respect the human rights of every member of our societies. It is only by doing this that we can truly be free.

AUTHOR

Folakemi Oyeyemi is an Associate Solutions Architect at Lead Resources, a strategic human capital development social enterprise that helps organizations become the best they can be using world-class tools and practices. She is a Mathematician and is also passionate about entrepreneurship.